Gen Y อยากอดทนต้องทำไง
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...Continue ReadingGen Y want to be patient. What should I do?
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Question: How can I do to be 'patience' in work, sister Ae?
I am a Gen Y kid. As I have heard that I am a low tolerance kid who is very true. I don't tolerate. I don't fight. I want high freedom. I try to be patient, but I can't take it for myself. Even the previous generation can endure more. So I want to ask for advice on 'patience' for kids. How can I build it sustainably?
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Answer: Personally, I think that the low tolerance habit of Jane is caused by two reasons. One is modern technology. Two is a necessity in
1) Changed technology: Make this generation live with the media that brings the whole world in front of them. Just open a computer, mobile phone or tablet. One day, see as much information as people. The previous generation took months to use and the speed of technology that increases "Instant" to count the days.
I see the world so much. Everything is fast. It's not strange that people are bored easily and patient.
In addition, technology also makes them see a lot of " choices " and don't like to do this job. There are many other jobs to do. So I feel like I don't have to " stop " themselves at any job and ask yourself all the time. - Is this the best job that fits us?
2) Financial necessity: This generation is the children of the generation. Working hard to make money to build a certain amount of life (may not all), so there is a certain status of family status. There is no condition. I have to endure to endure the job that you If you don't like it, quit. No burden to take care of money, so it's not necessary for them because they can still be supported by home.
Both of them are the advantage of Jane Y. Meanwhile it can make us become serious. Drifting without destination and keep running away.
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I found that "patience" is like a muscle. I have to practice, discipline, force myself. Even if I suffer myself in some times. It hurts, so that it will happen so that it will be strong.
If the growth of the body has to go through hard and continuous growth of the inner mind, there is no difference.
Our brain learns from thinking and doing something repeatedly from behavior will slowly change to " habit " if we let ourselves to escape our own problems, that will slowly become our " habit " and we often say " can't help it. I'm human. Like this " but in fact, we can practice our habits as we want. If we practice ourselves to face problems, be patient with what you don't like. Work hard, cross through boredom. These will gradually become " habits " with us.
It's like waking up and working out every morning. Some days are lazy. Some days are hot. Some people run for three days. There are plenty of excuses in life. But the one who build muscle is successful is the one who do what does what. It's hard to do as others give up one by one by one.
If you really want to build a "muscle of patience" we will have to discipline myself. Tell myself that I will be patient. Not easy to quit so that my heart can grow. How many years will we be like this? No one. Let's make us grow. Besides practicing our own heart through experience that we have to spend time with it. Even if we don't like it all, we will get through it and become another stronger.
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We should have "goals" both concrete and abstract
See how I want to complete this job. If this piece is successful, what will it look like if we pass these three months. This year, where will we move to in terms of skill.
Patience is to pass the " present " condition for better condition in the future "
So the picture of "future" must be clear. I have to answer myself what we are patient for. If this goal is not clear, we will not have encouragement and there is no
It's like a muscle player with a picture of a model, a good shape. Put it on the side of the lid.
But sometimes the concrete goal is not clear, we may aim for abstract that no one can see in our heart. Such as I will practice my mind by getting through the unhappy moment to overcome the boredom and settle down with this job. Going for at least a year or two years
You can expect that if we focus like this and work seriously with a positive attitude. Want to develop ourselves. We want to come out the best. We will get two results for ourselves. One is the more work skills. Two are the maturity in terms of mind. If patient enough, you definitely get that
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And in the end, try to choose the most favorite job you can find or figure out at that time. Because whether it's a job we like or not, there are some things to be "patient" with. It will make us endure that longer. There is a reason to Endurable
Plus, we should adjust the attitude of living and work. That we don't live to find happiness or work for happiness only, but we work to learn. We work to practice. We work to grow both the inner and spiritual.
Therefore, Luang Jean Shaolin has to find water instead of sleeping and sitting for day.
We have to go through difficult to grow, to be patient, to be strong, to be strong, to be
I used to read a book about brain work. Research says that if we don't " cross " difficult things, we won't be happy because life without challenges. We need " difficulty " to have " happiness " We need to "overcome" so that the substance of happiness.
Walking away from problems and boredom brings more problems and boredom because we will be bored of " overcome " anything or nothing to " to " overcome "
Humans can't stand that kind of condition. It's harder than having to be patient to overcome.
No matter what Jane, I think patience can practice. It's up to us. Is it enough to play muscles. It's straightforward. I have never seen anyone with exercise. There won't have a strong muscle.
Patience is like a muscle. The more we have it, the more we can endure the weight and the more weight we can lift, the stronger we become and grow.
All that comes must start with the first muscle.
Ready to bodybuilding! Have you grown heart muscle yet?
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